WordPress co-founder Matt Mullenweg responded to Cloudflare’s announcement of EmDash as the spiritual successor to WordPress by invoking Will Smith’s Oscars slap, telling Cloudflare to keep the WordPress name out of their mouth. Cloudflare’s CEO responded with a tweet that invoked the WordPress name. Mullenweg ultimately edited his blog post to tone it down.
Screenshot Of Mullenweg’s Original Conclusion
Spiritual Successor To WordPress
Mullenweg published a blog post about EmDash in which his first criticism was the claim that it was the spiritual successor to WordPress. He contrasted WordPress against it by pointing out that WordPress can be installed and used on virtually any device and on any platform, saying that this was a part of their mission to democratize publishing by making it easy to deploy on almost any kind of infrastructure.
Matt aimed his next comment straight at Cloudflare:
“You can come after our users, but please don’t claim to be our spiritual successor without understanding our spirit.”
The Compliment Sandwich
Back in the early 2000s, Googlers were famous for their friendliness and smiles. I don’t think it was a calculated thing; the smiles were not a persona; it was genuine. I believe that many of the Googlers who had interactions with the SEO community were genuinely friendly and truly wanted to help people with their SEO issues. When I lived in San Francisco, I had many visits at Google and had nothing but positive experiences.
Matt affects that same kind of persona where he speaks with a smile. But he also does it while being critical of things, which is a kind of dissonant thing to witness. His response to Cloudflare is the written equivalent of that approach.
It follows compliment sandwich pattern:
- Positive statement
- Criticism or negative point
- Another positive statement
Done correctly, with tact and genuine empathy, it can soften criticism. It’s a valid approach to providing critical but helpful feedback.
Matt accused Cloudflare of using EmDash as a way to promote their infrastructure, but he did it with a smile.
He criticized:
“I think EmDash was created to sell more Cloudflare services.”
Then he switched over to the positive statement:
“And that’s okay! It can kinda run on Netlify or Vercel, but good stuff works best on Cloudflare. This is where I’m going to stop and say, I really like Cloudflare! I think they’re one of the top engineering organizations on the planet; they run incredible infrastructure, and their public stock is one of the few I own. And I love that this is open source! That’s more important than anything. I will never belittle a fellow open source CMS; I only hate the proprietary ones.”
Then he criticized Cloudflare again:
“If you want to adopt a CMS that will work seamlessly with Cloudflare and make it hard for you to ever switch vendors, EmDash is an incredible choice.”
That last part is a backhanded and sarcastic compliment, implying that EmDash is a way to trap users within Cloudflare’s infrastructure. Mullenweg offered a bullet-point list of additional criticism mixed with compliments.
Keep WordPress Out Of Your Mouth
Mullenweg ended his blog post with a conciliatory-sounding paragraph that ends abruptly with a phrase that invoked Will Smith’s Oscars slap:
“Some day, there may be a spiritual successor to WordPress that is even more open. When that happens, I hope we learn from it and grow together. Until then, please keep the WordPress name out of your mouth.”
Mullenweg is doing something between the lines there. Whether he did it intentionally or not, he’s invoking Will Smith’s infamous moment at the Oscars, when he slapped Chris Rock across the face and told him to keep his wife’s name out of his mouth. That phrase subtly invokes a violent image, with Mullenweg playing the role of Will Smith slapping Cloudflare across the face.
By using that specific phrase, Matt Mullenweg was, intentionally or not, invoking the Oscars conflict by comparing Cloudflare’s use of the “WordPress” name to an insulting personal attack.
Added:
Matt has since updated his blog post to remove the Oscars slap reference and posted a more toned down conclusion:
“Some day, there may be a spiritual successor to WordPress that is even more open. When that happens, I hope we learn from it and grow together. [removed “out of your mouth” sentence, too spicy for Western palates.] I’ve mostly focused on this post on just the software, but WordPress is also so much about the community — the meetups, the WordCamps, the art, the college programs, the tattoos, the books… The closest thing I’ve seen to a spiritual successor isn’t another CMS, it’s been OpenClaw.”
Understated Irony
After being told to keep WordPress out his mouth, Cloudflare co-founder and CEO Matthew Prince responded on X by saying it’s a fair criticism and then immediately putting WordPress in his mouth. Prince tweeted:
“Think this is a fair critique from @photomatt of EmDash.
I remain hopeful it’ll bring a broader set of developers into the WordPress ecosystem.”
What Prince did there was politely defy Mullenweg by tweeting the word “WordPress” in his response after being told to keep it out of his mouth while simultaneously adopting the persona of someone trying to “help” the person who just slapped him. In the context of the Oscar reference, it’s as if Chris Rock had responded to the slap by calmly saying, “I hope this incident brings more viewers to your next movie.”
Was that meant as understated irony? If so, it’s a master class.
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